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He's everything on my list, BUT....

Today I was having a nice conversation with one of my best friends about none other than dating and boys. As we were talking, I found a meme that says "Bae has everything on my list, except being a Christian" - along with a picture of a cute baby making a funny face. I was having a similar conversation earlier with my bestie from work, we decided if there was any a time to play the "Jesus card" as a Christian, it's when it comes to dating. As we talked about boys, I had a few things come to mind that I'd like to share with all my single ladies (all my single ladies...)! 1- Jesus looks at you and loves you. He doesn't try to change you in any way, He tells you to come as you are. Your man of God should be no different. There should be no, I'd love to date you, BUT...! Once you hear that, move on. He's not the one for you. 2- Jesus pursues you, and is patient. These are two super important qualities in my opinion. Having a man that pursues yo...

The Art of Letting Go

So one of the things that's been on my heart to write about lately is something I feel as though a lot of us, if not all of us can relate to. Remember going through elementary school, middle school, high school, and college trying to maintain a group of friends? Well, sometimes, as you grow older, you realize that you cannot always do that. Sometimes life just happens. People drift apart. It's a reality. Maybe you're single and all your friends are in relationships or married. Maybe your friends are having kids, and you're not quite there yet. Maybe, you're just separated geographically due to jobs you've landed. Either way, you're changing. You're growing up...and sometimes that means growing apart. At first, it can be a gradual, slow process. Not communicating with them as much. Being too busy with school/work/significant other or children to plan a get together or a video chat. In the beginning, you try to make it work. You try to text/call have a...